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Best Advice To Remember When Gender Swaying

This advice comes from many women who have experienced successful and failed sways and summarized into this one message of the advice I have read among swaying forums (I take no credit for these words of wisdom I share with any eager women / couples eager to try swaying):

First, please, don't blame yourself if your sway fails. Many women have experienced failed sways, even some of the best sways.

Second, Swaying works some what in swaying the odds, but it is not a 100%. However, that does not always mean success. You can still believe in swaying, but that's all it is, a sway. The rest is fate, luck, destiny, God  -  whatever it is you believe in....The best line of thinking is I want a baby. If it's a [whatever gender you're hoping for] then that is a bonus.

Third, if your sway fails and you decide you may want to try again. Ask yourself if you're okay with having a [gender you aren't hoping for]. If you can answer honestly that yes you are okay with having the gender you are not hoping for then sway, but come to terms with being okay with the gender you are not hoping for in the event that your sway fails when you find out the gender.

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