🚩 He Doesn’t Drive Each partner should have a car that they own/lease and are legally able to drive. I found myself constantly driving to my date’s side of town and wondered why he wasn’t coming to mine. It can be a red flag if the person you are going on dates with / dating never drives. This could mean a suspended license. Or other driving-related issues. This happened to me twice and neither of the men were forthcoming with the information until I pushed to know why I was the only one driving. 🚩 He Doesn’t Pay It’s a red flag if a guy says he likes you, hangs out with you, has sex with you, but doesn’t pay for dates with you. Or he will only pay for small items like a drink from the gas station, a snack at the dollar store, or a cheap meal at a fast-food restaurant. This could be a sign your date does not have a regular, sustainable income to take you out. In other words, he is broke. While money is not everything, you must decide if you’re okay bein...