I remember this conversation in an online women's support group I am in. The question is how do you determine which situations are worth pursuing? Even if it is going to lead to disagreements? Situations, such as who gets the kids for Christmas Eve night and Christmas morning? Or are you obligated to share Christmas photos of the kids if you paid for professionals and the other parent did not financially contribute? My opinion may be one of the least popular ones, but here is the point I am expressing. The heart of it goes beyond one situation co-parents may find themselves disagreeing about. And yes, I am speaking from personal experience. My soon-to-be-ex and I have had many disagreements throughout our marriage of 11.5 years and 19 months of separation. I promise, there is wisdom here. One should pick which things are worth fighting over and which ...