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Becoming Celestial Soul Mates (Trust & Honesty)


  • Trust
"Trust is the fundamental element of becoming soul mates...Trust is based on two important principles: honesty and commitment...When we find ourselves holding back, it means we either have not reached that degree of trust or we had it, but something has disturbed it, causing us to be afraid of getting hurt. If you find yourself not opening to your spouse, this is the moment to analyze what has happened to your relationship."
  • Honesty 
"With honesty, people tend to go to one extreme or the other. Either they hide parts of themselves and are unable to be sincere, or they believe saying sincerity means saying everything on their mind no matter how offensive it may be. Neither is correct. The first example limits intimacy and will hinder the special relationship of friendship...The opposite can be more destructive. Insults, sarcasm, demeaning remarks, criticizing with intent to harm and extreme anger are no way to honor, cherish or express love to your spouse. They are merely a lack of self-control and a sign of immaturity. Letting it all out is not honesty, but childlike behavior."
"We build honesty with acceptance and appreciation."

 "Criticism and disapproval are two elements that ruin honesty and trust."
  • Questions to Ask Yourself
"Are you honest with yourself? Do you admit your errors or are you always blaming others? Are you a complainer? Being honest with yourself is not easy, it requires taking responsibility for your actions, thoughts, emotions, and reactions." 
  • Unresolved Conflict
"Many issues may be the lingering pain caused by the unresolved conflict. By not resolving your conflicts, you have eradicated barriers that will limit spiritual intimacy with your spouse. "

  • Trust Test
"One good test of trust is whether you can open up totally in your prayers to the Lord in the presence of your spouse."

- Bibliography -

Cole, Trafford R. Becoming Celestial Soul Mates: Ten Golden Rules for a Richer Relationship. Springville, UT: CFI, 2006. Print. Pages 17-21.
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