Not Using Time Out & Changing Perspective on Discipline I heard this from natural and attached parenting moms, even from my early childhood education professors. It took a while of hearing this and learning from experience how ineffective time out was (we did child in time out 1 min per age). We used this method often from 2-3 years old with our 1st child, but always felt that she was in time out too much and not feeling like the behavior was getting better. By 3.5 years old, we were sure that time out was being over used, no improvement in our toddler's behavior and we were finding ourselves easily becoming frustrated with every misbehavior, warning and attempts at failed discipline. We all of a sudden knew why some joke, terrible two's and three's. Our solution was to attempt to use time out less and save it for severe things like hitting or pushing the baby, but even less time out didn't work, because we still said, stop x and y or I'll ...